During the first visit to meet your adoptive child many parents present them with a small photo album of their future home and family. I would like Marin's to be in the form of an invitation. Nellie's will have to be tactile (and I'm compiling a Wonderbaby article on that right now) but Marin is older, and I think a bit of requesting permission to turn his world upside down is in order.
I imagine it as something like this (in Bulgarian):
We would like to be your parents.
Would you give and get hugs and kisses from your two sisters?
Will you let us take you to the best city on earth (Boston)? Will you let us show you all the fun at Boston's Museum of Science?
Will you learn and love and laugh with us dear Marin?
When I think of it this way, I am just amazed that we have been given this opportunity to love these two children. That we have been given the opportunity to take them into our hearts and make them special. William's dad knew what a pleasure and privilege that was; how it enriches your life in no other way. We are so dearly blessed to be presented with this and thank God for it.